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#273327 - 03/01/13 03:44 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: Barb E]
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I hope it sells quickly and you will be able to move on soon.

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#273329 - 03/01/13 05:12 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: MaxaLisa]
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Thank you so much Patti, Barb and Lisa hugging

Patti I probably should be walking Moo more but it's a vicious cycle, I'm so depressed I don't want to do anything, some days it's all I can do to have a shower. And yet I know that exercise helps with depression. Grrrrr

Brad said today he's not even sure we are doing the right thing hammer and then a few hours later proceeds to tell me that MY camera will be his. I give up, can't be bothered with all the petty divisions.
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#273339 - 03/01/13 07:08 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: bianca]
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Bianca, I have wanted to ask you all kinds of questions about your breakup but don't feel like it is any of my business. But I am very concerned for you. hugging
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#273341 - 03/01/13 07:23 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: Good_Karma]
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Oh Bianca. I don't post much on your threads on Coop and Molly, but I have been reading them and keeping up on everything. I so admire all you have done and are doing for them and it about broke my heart to read about your impending split with Brad. I have no great words of wisdom but just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you guys.

hugging for Molly

hugging for Cooper

hugging hugging for YOU!
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#273590 - 03/02/13 08:54 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: DnP]
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Thank you so much Leah and Diana hugging hugging

Leah you can ask anything you like although I may have to pm you some answers...he mentioned using a lawyer who years ago completely shafted his mother in her divorce...nice and classy hey frown
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#273621 - 03/02/13 11:45 AM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: bianca]
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Oh, I am sorry that your split isn't "friendly" if there is such a thing. frown

Don and I both were wondering about your animals. Will you take them all? I know that Cooper was technically Brad's dog but I don't see how it is terribly practical for him to provide Cooper's care, at least right now. I was under the impression that you were primary caretaker of all your pets.

Do you have a place to live lined up for yourself? If you weren't half a world away I would take you and your menagerie in!! hugging
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#273636 - 03/02/13 02:54 PM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: Good_Karma]
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I am also in the corner of worry (that sounds weird, but I know you know what it means!). Having been through this recently, only his lawyer (and him) were not so bright, more frustrating than anything.

Anyway, thinking about you.
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#273644 - 03/02/13 04:11 PM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: MaxaLisa]
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hugging hugging

I will keep all the animals! Even though last night he said oh maybe I will take Cooper. Over my dead body.
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#273652 - 03/02/13 05:15 PM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: bianca]
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Bianca,

In NY you can use a mediator for an uncontested divorce. It's a lawyer who does not represent either person but instead looks for an equitable division of assets. Obviously, I have no idea if you have anything like that, but it eliminates the notion of the couple as adversaries.

take care of your whole family,

MJ

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#273695 - 03/02/13 08:34 PM Re: Miss Moo is off her rocker :( [Re: Mary Jane]
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Bianca, Do you have a lawyer of your own yet? Do not get talked into using the same lawyer your husband has chosen. Its important that you overcome any depression you may be feeling and get one soon if he has one already. I have to assume this must have come as no surprise to youor was it?

One thing I did when I was negotiating my divorce distributions was to sit down with a pad and pencil and go through the things I could not part with. Then I scratched off half of them until I reached a point where I drew a line in the sand, so to speak. I wouldnt give up anything behind that line. I was willing to negotiate with the rest but what was behind the line was non-negotiable. For example, my house (and it was MY house even though his name was on the deed and it cost me refinancing my mortgage to buy him out) was not negotiable. But my Victorian couch (reluctantly) was up for grabs if he was willing to give up something for it.

The line in the sand took some thinking but it worked. Whenever we reached a stalemate because he was crossing that line with demands he knew I wasnt going to consider but he just wanted to make my life miserable with, I simply got up and left. When he was ready to stop being a pain in the butt, wed sit down again to talk. You will need to do that with you critter babies. And finances (dont let him or his lawyer talk you out of income). And your camera, too. *grins*

Im not trying to be too practical and too little empathetic but Im worried about you, girl. Im sure youre feeling really down right now. Wallow in it for a bit (no more than a few days to a week) and then get off your duff and start taking care of yourself.

This is your momma speaking.
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